I’ll start this post out by declaring that there are only two genders: male and female.  The rest of the manufactured genders are mental illnesses.  I recognize everyone’s right to exist, but I refuse to conform to their fantasyland and pretend that a biological woman who decides she is a ‘man,’ but can still give birth, is actually a ‘man.’  That is a woman who is mentally ill and dresses up as a man.  Certainly no biological male who transitions to a ‘female,’ can give birth to another human being.  My proof is that there are 8,000,000,000 humans on this planet right now and 100% of them were given birth to by a biological woman.  In all of archaeological history, there has only been the discovery of male and female species. The end.  

The entire Gender Movement is about manufacturing instability between the generations and creating divides between males and females.  It is the reason the “Alphabet Mafia” lunatics want to divide us, the reason we are easily defeated, and the reason they then gain power and control over us.  

The Alphabet Mafia (LGBTQ+ Community) is attempting to get society to deny basic biology and compelling us to add 50+ other genders, all of whom have been manufactured in the past 5 years. The larger strategy is this: if they can bully us into denying basic biology, Leftist democrats know they can bully us into ANYTHING at all.

The best example of this is what Mao did during the ‘Cultural Revolution’ in China. He convinced young people to turn both their parents and their grandparents in to the communist government for ‘re-education’ if their elders didn’t comply with the new communist ideology. The result is that over 30,000,000 Chinese citizens were slaughtered. (Side note, the first thing the communist government did was take away their guns……..)

My point here is that democrats and the Alphabet Mafia has dominated the news with ‘transgender rights’ conversations. If you challenge them, they label you ‘transphobic.’ They target our children by normalizing having drag queen shows in libraries in order to introduce this mental illness to our most undeveloped and impressionable minds.

This is a social experiment designed to destroy traditional marriage and manufacture division between men and women. I’ll try to explain what I’m getting at by using my relationship with The German as an example.

Respect, Commitment, Loyalty, Peace:
In the 14 years that I have been with The German, we have not had a single fight. Not one. We have had two 'disagreements' and both of them were about how to correct the children.  When I tell people that, they can hardly believe it.  Most can’t imagine how it’s even possible, but it’s true. 

I would say that we have an extraordinary marriage that is as strong as I've ever heard because there are a couple things we agreed to be aligned on at all times:

1) The Geneva Convention: Rules for Battle and Warfare. In the event we actually get into a fight, the ground rules are:

a) No name calling (ever in any way)

b) No swearing 

c) No yelling

2) We have aligned on the Six Non-Negotiables:

a) Faith

b) Fidelity

c) Finances

d) Sex

e) Politics 

f) How to raise the kids

We always operate in an environment of respect and love.

We also operate under the premise that we spend a lot of time together and talk about where we stand. We listen to each other deeply and serve each other 100% at full throttle. Anytime you hear that marriage needs to be 50/50, they are abjectly wrong. It needs to be 100/100 because life is going to cause some havoc on both of you. If you are both giving 100% to the relationship, but one spouse goes through a bad season with their health or lose a job or whatever and they may only be able to give 80%, as a couple, you're still at 180%.

Don’t get me wrong, things aren't always rosy. We go through 'seasons' and challenges just like everyone else. But because we have a mutual respect and are abundantly grateful for each other, we have a peaceful, loving, warm and deep relationship. When the poop hits the fan, we double down on spending time with each other, where there is refuge and safety. We can let our guard down. We can just exist free from judgement from the world. It's how we heal and overcome challenges.

I had none of these things in place with any other relationship prior to The German. Call it what you will, but we call it 'wonderful.'

All these things are possible because we have chosen to operate within the traditional man and traditional woman roles. As a man, I want loyalty, respect, honor and peace in my house, and someone to be my woman. As a woman, The German wants loyalty, security, and consistency.

We execute these roles for each other daily and have exceptional communication. We speak and act on each other's Love Languages.

According to the post-modern woman, they'd label me as 'boring' and as a 'wimp' because I love the ground The German walks on. My response will always be this: you've claimed that you want to do all the things men do. You want to be promiscuous, be financially independent and wild. Yet, you are miserable, have crippling anxiety, are on anti-depressants in record numbers and often complain, "where are all the good men!?"

As it turns out, when you are an 'independent woman,' you're operating in the cruel, vicious world of men. Men are BRUTAL to each other. We kill each other over gym shoes!

So these young women who have thrown themselves at 'high value men' who run through them like a hot knife through butter, end up 32 years old, with a great career and make 6-figures, but they remain alone because the 32 year old men they shunned and ignored in their 20s are now fit, financial kings and want a woman who is 

a) agreeable

b) not run through

c) respectful 

d) loyal. 

Those are things the 32 year old men are finding in much younger women.

This is why they are predicting that by 2030 (only 7 years from now), 52% of women between the ages of 25-44 years old will be both single and without children.

For those women, 60 years old is coming fast and no career, Fendi handbags, Sunday brunches with ‘da girlz’ or big, empty houses are going to fill the hold in their soul. No amount of tattoo sleeves, blue hair or solo vacations to the Maldives is going to fill that empty pit that a loving husband and a couple of kids/grandkids will.

I've been overt in my criticism of women for a long time. I was married to a 'strong, independent, college-educated' woman. It was absolutely miserable. I was miserable and lost. She was miserable. I extracted myself out of that horrific relationship and never looked back. I wasn't going to die alone with a 'roommate' that I was married to and that's what I was in.

Today, I can say that I am happier than I've ever been in my life as a result of the life that I am building with The German. We travel. We laugh. We hike everywhere. We live as one.

That's exactly what God intended for marriage.

The challenge is to filter through and find the person that is the Yin to your Yang, the peanut butter to your jelly. It's tough because we live the Tinder 'swipe right' world now where most dating happens on apps and perpetuates hook-up culture. The statistic is that women only swipe right on 5% of the men they see on Tinder. Think of the implications of that: 5% of the men are getting women’s attention. What could possibly go wrong with that?

But I wonder what would happen if I created an app where the concept was that all members adopted a 'Geneva Convention' and "Six Non-Negotiables" strategy. I'm NOT saying that The German and I are perfect (we are most certainly not). But I am wondering if we would deescalate the hysteria and drama in the world if we stopped trying to take what the other gender has for themselves.

What would happen if couples sat down and talked about the important things first, and did not just try to fast forward to having sex?

What would happen if there was an agreement to not have sex until the 12-month mark and only within the confines of a committed, monogamous relationship?

What would happen if men reverted to the traditional man and women reverted to the traditional woman roles according to the way God intended marriage? By the way, there is NOTHING that denigrates women in any way as marriage is described in the Bible. As a matter of fact, the burden for the husband to love his wife is FAR HIGHER one than the duties the wife has to the husband - true story.

What would happen if we completely rejected the post-modern feminist movement that pushes the concept of 'equity' rather than 'equality.' Equity meaning equal outcome v. equality meaning equal opportunity.

Sadly, I think we've become a nation of attention junkies. So many women live in the Instagram/TikTok world that they'd forgo a relationship rather than give up social media attention. And so many young men act like wild animals and don't show women respect and dignity.

There is a massive difference between boys and men. At the core of it, ALL males are base, violent animals. No man escapes the biologically rooted desire to conquer as many women as possible. It's built into our DNA. The boy plays games and manipulates the girl. The boy has temper tantrums when he doesn't get his way with the girl. The boy will constantly DM other Girls in order to get more sexual partners to appease his selfish nature. The boy is NOT loyal and will cheat at every possible opportunity. The boy will lie and twist everything to get his way.

So, while the 'boy' appeases his every animalistic, base compulsion and manipulates women as objects, the 'man' shuts down all those compulsions.

The man wants a true partner in life. The man wants to build a strong, successful family. The man wants ONE woman to trust in every way in mind, body, and spirit. The man wants to serve his woman and wants to be served by his woman. The man suspends his ego. The man will listen to his woman to both hear her and understand her. The man is patient with his woman because he deeply loves her and wants her to be happy. The man is in charge of the relationship and leads with the woman as his right arm and most trusted advisor. The man wants to build his family with her!

Dr. Jordan Peterson hit the nail on the head when he said that (paraphrase), "....all men should be dangerous....only we need to control it." He's absolutely spot on. I'm taking that idea to a baser level and breaking it down to sexual reproduction.

All males (human and animal) are programmed to run through as many women as possible, but a man controls it and focuses on building a family with a good, committed woman. We live in the safest time in world history to not die by violence……because men stopped starting wars with each other in order to conquer the other guy’s women! The boy is selfish and uses women for his gratification.

To the girls: stop trying to be a 'boss babe.' Being an 'independent woman' is a bad thing. When we hear that, men assume that you're a pain in the ass, that you're disagreeable and that you'll cause drama. We assume that you won't be loyal and that you'll use a man for our stability and resources when it suits you. We assume that you’re going to take ‘your money’ and spend it not on things to grow the family, but to do something for you. We assume that when you want to dress like a ho and go to the clubs with your single girlfriends, you’re desire is to having other men buy you drinks in hopes of getting you to have sex with them.

Men don’t care how much money you make. Men don’t care about how educated you are. Men don’t care about what kind of car you drive.

Instead, women should be celebrated for their wonder. Women really are the fairer sex! Embrace that femininity 100%. We want to love and honor you and be your soulmate. We want to build an empire with you. We want your undivided attention and in return, we will build an amazing life of joy, peace, and adventure together.

The attack campaign on gender that the Leftist democrat created is rooted in the desire to destabilize male/female relations. It started in the 1960s with the sexual revolution and the invention of the birth control pill. The result in the liberalization of sexual activity has been nothing short of a catastrophe.

The impact of having single women raise children largely by themselves has been an abject disaster. This is not a slam on single mothers, but rather a call to action to do something different. Shackling a woman with the responsibilities to be both the mother and the father crushes the mother!

Children benefit in EVERY way by having a father in the home. Every metric is improved when there is a father. When a father is in the home, the children typically

• Live longer

• Have a lower chance of ending up in jail

• Have a lower chance of drug use

• Have a lower chance of suicide

• Have a lower chance of ending up home 

• Have lower alcoholism rates 

Literally EVERY statistic is improved with two parent households. Men and Women need to do better.

It starts with challenging the ridiculous narrative that the democrat party is pushing that we must 'topple the patriarchy' and that there is 'toxic masculinity' everywhere. We also must stop programming our young women that they live in 'rape culture' and that they are 'victims.'

I could probably write a book about all this stuff because it is so complex, but if I'm going to boil the problem and the solution down to something simple, I would say this: men need to hold boys accountable and teach them how to be and act like men. We need to celebrate manhood and reward good behavior and punish bad behaviors.

Women need to teach young girls how to be women and hold them accountable, rewarding good behavior and punishing bad behaviors.

And finally, we need to smash the post-modern feminist movement to pieces. Fifty years ago, we needed to make drastic changes because men excluded women from all kinds of rights. The feminist movement gave women a platform for their voices to be heard.

Today, the post-modern feminist movement is a bunch of Marxist lesbians who hate men and want all the power. They want unstable male/female relationships because they gain power and money by advancing their wicked narrative.

Call me what you want, but this is my formula for a very rewarding, meaningful, and happy life.  

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